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In association with www.BT3EFT.com and www.BESTherapies3.com Say "Get-Knotted!" - to trouble and strife in your life
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Triple Whammy!
Anger, Anxiety & Addictions - all these stresses can have a huge impact and unbalance your life.
Panic attacks, phobias, stress, compulsive and repetitive behaviour - all contribute to leading a very disrupted life-style and are part of the anxiety and addiction cycle too.
If you'd like me to help you deal with it in a different way - read below for more info ...
To book a 1-2-1 session, click here
What is Anger? Anger is an aroused state in which your mind's attention is focussed on a potential threat and your body responds by getting ready to run or fight. Adrenaline and other stress hormones run round your body, heart rate and blood pressure rise, breathing gets deeper and faster, blood is diverted from the organs to the muscles, and your whole organism gets ready for action. At the same time, your thinking becomes more primitive and modern intelligence (a significant part of what makes us human), disappears. It is a primal, energised state, similar in many ways to sexual arousal, so it can be quite addictive. Why combat anger? Here's a little known fact: Many angry people will die before their time, of heart attack. Cardio-vascular complications brought on by the continuing periods of high physical arousal put a strain on your heart. Life may be dangerous and unpleasant, for you, your relatives and friends and the people you meet. The rising levels of angry behaviour in society are making whole communities more stressful, intimidating and depressing places to be. What can be done? The first step is to find out what is causing your angry behaviour. Anger doesn't just happen, it is a response to something in the the environment. So, what is triggering it? Is it related to previous traumatic events that need to be de-traumatised? If not, what elements in your life need to be re-interpreted? The Human Givens therapist will do this, and use guided imagery to help you learn how to manage emotional states once they begin, rehearsing staying calm in situations which previously caused angry outbursts. You will also be taught how to become generally calmer. How can people become calmer overall? All people, not just those who are reacting angrily to their environment, benefit from learning how to reduce their general emotional arousal level. If you regularly relax, for example, you tend to have fewer illnesses and a longer and happier life. And there are other things that almost anyone can do which will have a profound effect on mood and well-being generally, reducing stress by attending to unmet emotional needs. Emotional needs and stress Reducing or cutting out over-stimulation from television, DVDs, computer games, drugs, and other unbalancing elements of the modern lifestyle will help; learning calming techniques and new ways of responding to stressful situations is very useful; but the main improvement will come from meeting the essential emotional needs in your life.
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